You identify however you feel comfortable identifying and fuck the haters. I know plenty of women, both trans* and not, who identify as queer.
You’ll run into some women that don’t wish to date you; everyone does, for a multitude of reasons. Some of theirs might be transphobia, plain and simple, but don’t dwell on it too long — they’re the ones who are missing out, not you. Heck, some people won’t even date brunettes, humans are weird beasts.
Likewise, you’ll run into plenty of women who do want to date you and will accept you as who you are: a gay woman. It’ll all be just ducky!