Who Wasn't There

🐙Writer, Collector of Antiquities, and Bibliophile.
🐙Co-Creator of FindChaos & ChaosLife comics.

🐙All-Around Weirdo.
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Asker Anonymous Asks:
This is an awkward question but I don't know who else to go to for advice about this and I like the way you answer questions so... is one expected to shave/wax one's nether regions if one is a lesbian? I really don't want to do that, because my skin gets infected really easily and I hate stubble. I already keep everything trimmed so that I can wear a bikini without any escaping hair. (I'm 17 and have never been in a relationship/had the sex, btw.) Is this a turn off for most ladies??
whowasntthere whowasntthere Said:

Of course you don’t have to shave/wax if you don’t want to! That’s certainly not a requirement to be a lesbian (or any other sexuality) and it’s certainly not a turn-off for the vast majority of people. In fact, a lot of people prefer hair down there!

Nether regions come in all kinds of beautiful degrees of hair — from nothing at all to fuzzy to heart-shaped to gorgeous locks spilling out all over the place. It’s all a matter of personal preference and comfort, not arbitrary rules that people impose on you. They should just be happy that you’re giving them a peek at your gloriousness to begin with!

And if anyone ever gives you a hard time about doing something you’re not 100% comfortable with — whatever that might be — remember, they’re a jerk. You don’t owe someone perfectly bare privates any more than you owe someone a million dollars. It’s your body. If they don’t like it, they don’t deserve your sweetness.

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Reblogging for the day crowd!

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battlestory:

Battle Royale // random screenshots

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mediamattersforamerica:

The internet’s most beloved geek Wil Wheaton calls out misogyny in gaming, and confronts the men who attack him for doing so. Incredible. 

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Asker findchaos Asks:
Do you plan on getting any more tattoos? Will there be colors?
whowasntthere whowasntthere Said:

Ya know I do and ya know there won’t be.

For those that don’t know, I already have two more on my right thigh and plan to have it filled by next year. 

What's scarier, Korean or Japanese horror movies?
whowasntthere whowasntthere Said:

From what I’ve seen of them, they both have similar elements (as any horror movies do), but I tend to like Korean horror movies for their outright focus on characters, especially dark or violent characters. 

In my personal ‘Scary Ratio’ opinion, Japanese horror movies will fuck with your head, but Korean horror movies will just plain fuck you.

Asker aburningrose Asks:
If you could fight any historic figure, who would it be? (Other than Lincoln or Gandhi, of course)
whowasntthere whowasntthere Said:

Genghis Khan. Though my version of ‘fighting’ Genghis Khan would be a run-by butt-slap of Genghis Khan, just to say I did it.

Asker lunulata Asks:
Is there any trope/archetype in writing that you find yourself being a fan of despite knowing there's problems with it, but can't get enough of it anyway?
whowasntthere whowasntthere Said:

I’m a sucker for unnecessary cute pets. I think ‘Good Omens’ almost killed me with the adorable demon-dog, though he wasn’t entirely unnecessary, but disgustingly cute all the same.

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